Bud wrote:but i cant feel any difference when i use the wrench..... i can use all the tension in the world but i can still move the pins..... i think i might be inserting the wrench wrong....
I don't think you are inserting the tension wrench wrong, but you may be mis-understanding the purpose of the wrench. The wrench is used to apply a rotational force upon the plug, which 'traps' (the correct term is bind) pins between the plug and the shell (housing), across the shear line. This binding situation is what's used to select the most 'bound' pin, and this is the pin which should be picked (set) first. Once the pin is set, find the next most bound pin, set it and repeat for the remaining pins in the lock.
From your description of what is happening, I suspect that you are using waaaay too much tension and trying to set an unbound pin. If you feel confident enough to do this, take all but one pin stack out of the lock and practice the feel you get from picking this one stack. Start with your view of 'normal' tension, then try to raise the pin with the pick. Slowly release the pressure on the tension wrench so that you can easily raise the pin up, but when you ease up the pressure on the pick, the pin does not pop back down.
When the pin is set, you'll feel the plug rotate. Once you can get to this stage easily with one pin stack, insert another. This time it's a little harder. You'll have to find which pin is binding the most and set that one first. You'll feel the plug rotate, then come to a stop. At this stop, the second pin will be bound, and using the same tension you applied to set the first pin, raise the second.
Start with one pin and repeat picking say fifty times.
Insert another stack and repeat fifty to a hundred times.
And so on.
A video is not really going to help you, practice is what each and every picker here, has used to get them to the level that they are at. Practice, combined with reading and fully understanding papers such as the MIT guide will get you a lot further along than a video.
Hope this helps you out and you can stick at this hobby. With a little patience, you'll be pleased at how much you progress.