I'm not sure if this has been mentioned, but a big thing you guys are forgetting is that with the newton balls u have there, all of them are the same mass, so the momentum is transfered in such a way that it is "99%" transfered to the next ball.
Care to guess what would happen if those newton balls were different sizes/masses?
It's the same with this anti-bump key concept you have.
The bottom pin has the highest mass, and transfers the energy/momentum to the next group of masses/pins. The two upper pins would both move since they together would approximately equal the mass of the bottom pin.