Well for once this year i actually am in a good mood and will try and help out. First off a good pick will make life a ton easier. It takes a lot more work if you are using the wrong tools. You should read the FAQ first. It will answer almost every question you have. It is here:
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Now if you dont find it there(or dont even look there

) you can find how to make your own picks here:
viewtopic.php?t=2465
If you want to buy picks here is a list of the good and bad sites to go to:
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It is pretty hard to find anywhere to buy from other than online so just try one of the mentioned sites.
What ever you do make sure you've read the mit guide and as much as youu can. Here is the MIT guide:
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It is very helpful. Go over it until it ALL makes sence. Then start trying to pick.